I am South African born with South Indian Ancestry and am on the look out for somebody cool and soothing to compliment my hot and spicy. I am considered a big thinker who is imaginative and enjoys theorizing (so my friends say), both a good talker and listener (apparently) and am highly compassionate (hence my propensity for always supporting the underdog). I enjoy new ideas and novel experiences and am flexible and open to adventure. The one thing that I can not abide is BULLSHIT. I tend to have a strong aversion to it. I am searching for somebody who is not afraid of companionship or commitment and can hold their own in a conversation. A person who is not into mind games, who likes to cuddle even after being intermate. Somebody who loves leather, whips and toys of various sorts as much as I do and is a tad bit adventurous and believes in mutual play and satiafaction. I am looking for a serious relationship that would translate into something permanent. I seek somebody who is carefree, fun loving and who does possess the ability to laugh. I would love a partner who does not mind the occasional movie, dining out or a range of other activities because lets face it, there really is a whole lot more to a relationship than just sex. I am looking for a genuine, honest, open partner who is as sick of all the bullshit out there as I am and is looking to settle down. All persons looking for one night stands or the ever usual casual fling please DO NOT CONTACT ME.